Monday, July 23, 2012

Under my Hat

Perception seldom lives up to reality. Case in point, take the Great Wall in China, where we visited a month ago and consequentially bought a hat to prove I had actually been there.

Here’s the perception. If you have never been to the Great Wall in China, my guess is your own experience would have been a lot like this. One night, you probably couldn’t find anything else better to watch on TV and were flipping through the channels when you happened upon PBS or the History channel. Then suddenly you were allured by peaceful music that was accompanied by a scenic, breathtaking, overhead IMAX view of something you couldn’t quite put your finger. To further lure you in, you heard the soothing voice of Morgan Freeman or someone like him describing what your eyes and ears had been drawn into, like a moth to a flame. I’m just guessing here, but he probably said things like: What lies beneath you in all of its grandeur and beauty is one of the original Seven Wonders of the World. At one time, it had been rumored that the Wall could be viewed from the moon, albeit false, its true length is a staggering 5,500 miles long. The Great Wall, so simply, yet poignantly named has stood the test of elements and time. Effortlessly, this beautiful monument captivates the eyes and stimulates the imagination as it weaves its way throughout the ancient country side of China, like a thread in time, delicately bringing the past together with the present.

Here’s the reality. What I remember most about the Great Wall, besides the hat, is that the steps were incredibly steep. Hurt your lungs kind of steep. The steps at places were as high as your knee and then as high as your ankle and then somewhere in between. It was also painfully obvious that when the Chinese built the Wall they did not believe in landings. Had it not been for some flavored water I would have quit, but my nine year old daughter wanted to keep going, so up we went.


Obviously, the Great Wall wasn’t constructed to meet building codes because there was no rhyme or reason to how it was made. At some sections, there were holes in the wall for archers to shoot arrows at their enemies and strange enough now cool breezes flow through these openings. Many died to complete something they had no stake in, because it was forced on them. As I hiked it, I secretly feared I might succumb as well. Coming down it was akin to repelling down a cliff, sort of, while holding a weather beaten, rusty rail. My favorite memory, however, was climbing with my daughter, Sianna, up a tower that was attached to the Wall.

So, here’s where I’m going with this. Reality seldom meets up with perception. It’s cool to say that you climbed the Great Wall, but my experience tells me I could have lived without it and trusted the voiceover guy to fill me in on the details. However, so far as I’m concerned, I have a bunch of cool pictures. And did I mention I have a hat.
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Thursday, July 12, 2012

True or False

Am I a follower of Jesus? This is a question I try to answer with my life every day.

The aforementioned question was the subject of a book I was reading while in China called NOT A FAN, by Kyle Idleman. It was my airplane book that I couldn’t put down. The author was trying to make the distinction between being a commited follower of Jesus or just a casual fan who treats Jesus... as an consultant whose advice he can leave or take.

This book really go me to thinking because I believe following Jesus is a true or false question, an in or out proposition, not a maybe option. I believe a prerequisite of following God is that faith is included in the process and where there is faith, there are stories.

If I didn’t mention it before our journey to Lia was total faith, so much so that Amy and I chose Faith to be her middle name, which she hasn’t quite warmed up to yet. Following God through faith led us to China and ultimately to our third daughter. My wife and I had to have faith during our journey to Lia and especially when we were in China to get her. There were times in China when without faith in God to come through for us, we would have been lost, failed terribly, or been dead.

So, I want to take this opportunity to clarify that God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit deserve all the credit for our journey to Lia. We deserve none, we were just simply following.  

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Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Breaking News

Yesterday, I had some breaking news. I learned something through a minor inconvenience that occurred in my life. A pair of my pants had a wardrobe malfunction at work; my zipper broke. So, I did what I believed MacGyver would have done, had he been me with my limited repair skills, and used several paper clips to temporarily solve the problem. However, I didn’t learn anything of value form that, ...except buy better made pants.

This is what I learned: my life is really good. Funny thing is by the time I got home I had forgotten all about my dilemma and began to play outside with my wife and kids. I began to kick the soccer ball with Lia and watch Sianna walk around in “moon shoes” and was really just enjoying life.

This reminded me of an old episode of Mad About You on which the Seinfeld character, Kramer was guest appearing. He was giving relationship advice to Paul Reiser, the main character in the show. Kramer asked Paul about his wife. “Do you love her? Does she love you? Do you have three pairs of pants?” Paul said yes to all three and Kramer said, “there you go.”

So, I applied this logic to my life yesterday. Do I love my wife and kids? Do they love me? Do I still have three pairs of pants? So, there I go with a resounding yes to all three, my life is really good.
 
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Bowling

--From July 8th--

Thanks to my wife we stayed cool yesterday. at least for a few hours. Amy had the brilliant idea to go bowling instead of hang out in our house that gets hotter than Hector. It was a great time for all us Swavels as we laughed, bowled and then played in the arcade. We even saw a Johnny Cash video followed by Bon Jovi and Twisted Sister. I know, strange combo to be showing on a bowling alley TV....



 However, everytime I bowl I am pleasantly reminded of my friend, Dave Sampayo. Why? Well, years ago he diagnosed me with a tendency to bowl like Fred Flintstone and was afraid my wrist might snap off if I didn't change my bowling style. So, he bought me bowling shoes, gave me his old bowl redrilled to fit my hand, a new bowling bag and some bowling lessons. Now, although I am not a great bowler I do not inflict damage to myself.

 Dave taught me a great lesson. Instead of walking a mile in my shoes, he gave me shoes and a bowling ball that remind me of his kindness each time I step on a bowling lane.

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Unscathed

--From July 5th--
About a week ago, I had an epiphiany. Strange enough, it happened while I was waiting for an order at a Pizza Hut in China. It had been a crazy day and I just paused long enough to catch my breath and listen to the background music. The speakers were playing the old tune, "someone to watch over me."

It struck me how appropiate this song has been for me and my family in the past few weeks. Now you can call me crazy, but I don't think it was mere coincidence my family and I went halfway around the world unscathed. I will give that credit to God who not only planned the trip but protected us as He always does. Even since we've been home He has let it be known that without His care we would be in big trouble.

 To me, John 15:5 best sums up how I am feeling tonight, ".....Without God I can do nothing...

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Happy 4th

--From July 4th--

Two thoughts come to mind on this 4th of July:
 1- We live in a free country. Let that soak in for a minute................... Just recently my family and I came back from another country and you can only imagine how good we have it here. We have it sooo good here in the good old USA. My daughter, Sianna, best summed this up in China by saying that she couldn't wait to get home and kiss her bed.... I couldn't agree more with that sentiment.

 2-People died so we can have that freedom. Since, I will probably never get the chance to do the same, I believe the best way to honor those who have given their lives on our behalf is to live a thankful life for what I do have. Then, be willing to give my life up for that right if the opportunity does present itself.


 I will leave you with this quote from Revolutionary War hero, Nathan Hale, "I only regret that I have but one life to lose for my country.

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Brailling Uno

--From July 3rd--
Just another day of adjusting back to real life. I learned today how hard it is braille a set of UNO cards. Still not finished because I goofed up the red #'s and didn't even know it because brailling is like needle point. You can't see what you are doing till you are done because you must punch the dots from the backside. On top of that you must do your brailling backwards, so the wrting on the front side of the card comes out in order. Confusing I know, but it makes sense to Lia when she reads it, so when I get it finished it will be worth it. 

 Got to thinking today that life is a lot like brailling. So often we are frustrated becasue life doesn't seem to be going the way we would like. But, If we let God do His brailling in our lives I believe in the end it will make sense. Till then I will just keep brailling UNO cards till I get it right.

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Worth It

--From July 1st--
Got home last night about 5 pm and still trying shake off the jetlag. Thank you to all for your prayers and for all helped in our journey. It was a trip as my wife said before that was well worth it.

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All Systems Go

--From June 30th--
Just got a call (4 am). All systems GO. Hope to back in States today. Thank you Lord for being in control.

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Typhoon

--From June 29th--
If I had to write an ending to our trip to get Lia it would not be this: our flight may be postponed by a typhoon that is heading toward Hong Kong. No, I'm not kidding. But why not bring it on.
It seems to be par for the course for us Swavels. Hopefully and prayerfully the typhoon will not delay us and the next you'll hear from us we'll be home. If not, I'll be posting tomorrow from the other side of the world.


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